
He’s
 been condemned by other Muslim leaders, and some local imams have even 
refused to greet him. But Imam Daayiee Abdullah – believed to be the 
only openly gay imam in America– is proud of his story.
According
 to Aljazeera, Imam Abdullah was born a Christian, born and raised in 
Detroit, where his parents were Southern Baptists.
But at age 15, 
he told his parents he was gay. At 33, while studying in China, Abdullah
 converted to Islam, and went on to study the religion in Egypt, Jordan 
and Syria. But as a gay man in America, he saw that lesbian, gay, 
bisexual and transgender Muslims had unmet spiritual needs, so he 
decided to become an imam to attend to their needs.
“Sometimes 
necessity is the mother of invention. And because of the necessity in 
our community, that’s why I came into this particular role,” he told 
America Tonight about his journey.
His first act as an imam was performing funeral rites, Muslim body cleaning ritual for a gay Muslim who died of AIDS.
Pained Abdullah said:
“They
 had contacted a number of imams, and no one would go and provide him 
his janazah services. This pained me. I believe every person, no matter 
if I disagree with you or not, you have the right as a Muslim to have 
the proper spiritual [rites] and rituals provided for you. And whoever 
judges you, that will be Allah’s decision, not me.
 “The beautiful 
thing about God is that when you change your attitude, and say, ‘God, I 
need some help,’ and mean it sincerely, God is always there for you,”
Abdullah serves as the imam and educational director of the Light of Reform Mosque in Washington, D.C.
A mosque he helped form more than two years ago, to be a safe space for values and practices that other mosques may eschew.
In
 his mosque, women and men kneel side-by-side and women are allowed to 
lead prayers – actions that have sparked controversy even among American
 Muslims.
His mosque’s congregants are diverse and represent a 
wide range of cultures, religious upbringings and sexual orientations. 
For its LGBT congregants, the Light of Reform Mosque is a rare safe 
space. But not all of them are gay. Many are just Muslims looking for a 
mosque that accepts all kinds.
Not everyone is happy with the 
mosque though. Some local imams have refused to greet Abdullah, and many
 others across the country argue his work performing same-sex marriage 
is not legitimate, and that he should control his “urges.”
But Abdullah is firm in his belief.
“Being
 an openly gay imam and having been identified as such, I do get a lot 
of feedback and also kickback, but that’s OK,” he said. “I think that 
when people are unfamiliar with things, they tend to have an emotional 
knee-jerk reaction to it.
Abdullah has hope that the message he is
 working to spread will continue to resonate: “It is our relationship 
with God and our relationship with each other that really establishes 
our faith.” Not whether you are gay or straight.